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How You Do Your Money…

May 24, 2011

…is how you do the rest of your life.

I was talking to a yoga teacher about a friend of hers who was having money problems. Actually, he had been having money problems for most of his life. She told me that there is a saying in yoga: “How you do yoga is how you do the rest of your life.” In my years of working with others around their money, I’ve found this to be equally true: “How you do your money is how you do the rest of your life.”

If I gave you a list of all of the clients’ businesses and professions that I’ve ever worked with, and asked you to select which one of those clients was, by far, the most at peace with his or her financial past, present and future, you would never select the right one. If I gave you a list of all of their gross revenues, you would never select the right one. If I gave you a list of their net profits, you would never select the right one.

But, if I gave you a list of other attributes of each of these clients, it would be clear to many of you which is most at peace.

Do you have set work hours, take regular vacations, fund your retirement every month, pay yourself a steady salary, don’t draw additional money from your business, have proper insurances in place and utilize appropriate professional advice? In your personal life, do you eat well, exercise, and balance playtime with responsibility time? How do you do the rest of your life? Does it look like how you do your money?

I’ve learned a lot from this client. How did she come to be at peace? Consistency, and years of it. Paying a little extra on her mortgage every month, no matter what. Funding her retirement every year, no matter what. Using business debt very carefully and cautiously.

What could you do, in your life, to be at peace with your money?

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Stacey Powell, creating more financial clarity at CreatingAnswers.com, tweeting at @CreatingAnswers and showing off Financial Art at Facebook.

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The Power of Stating your Intentions Out loud

May 11, 2011
Amgen Tour 2009© waynepowellphoto.com

Amgen Tour 2009© waynepowellphoto.com

Tomorrow I leave on a 330-mile, 4-day cycling adventure: the NorCal AIDS Cycle. I’m a little impressed with myself. “Athletic” is not a word frequently used to describe me. As a kid, I wasn’t picked last for team sports, but I was never picked first. And until three months ago, I had never cycled more than 10 miles at a stretch. My last training ride was an easy, fun, quick 30 miles. I have good reason to be self-impressed.

Do you have a big financial goal? Something that feels unattainable, that you can’t see yourself ever reaching? Would you like to be self-impressed?

Say it out loud.

When I first uttered that I was considering the ride, it wasn’t a fully formed thought. But I’d said it out loud, first to a friend that serves on the Ride’s Board of Directors, and then to my daughter, and then to a best friend. It snowballed from there. My daughter wanted to do the ride with me, and then her godmother, and then a best friend, and then a client.

Ask for support.

One of my life’s intentions is to be physically fit. That’s not my sole reason for doing this ride; a long-time passion of mine is raising desperately needed funds for HIV/AIDS. But the ride was a goal that I could speak out loud, ask for support from my family, friends and colleagues, and be lovingly held accountable to completing my goal. The first $100 donation I received sealed the deal; there was no going back. Someone gave money in support of me. I was accountable.

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